What sets apart any consultant, service provider or practitioner is when they provide not just information, knowledge and understanding, but insight.
From the amount and quality of noise in a space, to the complexity of visual information in a room, personal preferences vary. The more you understand the nature of those you wish to reach in a business setting, or your own tendencies and preferences in your home and work settings, the more aligned your choices can be.
Meaningful engagement becomes possible when you relinquish your ego's identity of who you are. You surrender your expectations of who you should be. You come to trust discomfort as something requiring your attention. Pain is no longer threatening. You understand despair and a sense of a lack of engagement as invitations to inquiry.
When childhood experiences of ridicule or neglect are cleared, when you have surrendered the habit of repressing or denying your gifts, you can finally untangle yourself from the needs and realities of others.
The desire to connect to others, to have meaningful engagement, and to belong continue to press upon the gifted soul and can lead to fear-based decision making or interaction that throws the gifted soul off center.
You may be gifted in fields that do not even exist to most people. If you are a healer, an artist or a scientist, there may be no vocabulary for your thoughts, your experiences or the things you are working on.